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        We all know the story of Thanksgiving we are told as children. Some of us know the more historically accurate origins of Thanksgiving. Did you know that the Colonials actually practiced fasting on this holiday? It was known as the Thanksgiving Fast and not feast. The practice of holding a feast didn't happen until President Abraham Lincoln came along.

        Over the last 160 years, the tradition has changed and taken on a life of its own. We no longer celebrate exclusively with our families we are born in to. Some people gather in groups and call it friends-giving. How lovely is it to share good food and laughter with a family of people we choose? Not everyone has a family to go to- all for varying and very personal reasons. Some celebrate alone. While other invite strangers in to dine with them simply because they can.

         A traditional feast in magazines and photos on the internet shows a huge Turkey roasted to a lovely caramel brown, mashed potatoes, stuffing, cranberry sauce, a cornicopia full of gourds and vegetables, casseroles and pumpkin pies. Candied yams, corn on the cobb, green beans, baked beans and more.  Some families gather for the football games and the big Macy's parade on TV or in person.

       In my house, we have apple pie, corn casserole, mac'n'cheese, chicken and dumplings, a recipe passed down from my great granny, and yeast rolls. Lots of gravy. This year, I, Robin, and my best friend Megan are hosting a Thanksgiving for anyone who wants to come to UNITY and have dinner where they are welcomed. We are so thankful for UNITY just accepting us as we are and showing love to our hooligans we call children. We may not see Thanksgiving like others do, because we think it should include more than family. It should include anyone who is lost and needs a hearth to warm their spirits. I hope everyone has somewhere to go in the coming weeks. If you don't, come to UNITY. There is always someone with open arms, thankful that you are you and you are here.